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By Carlos F Morales - CDBC | CPDT-KA

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Raising a Calm and Well-Adjusted Dog: Strategies for Success

Updated: Dec 15, 2024

Raising a Calm and Well-Adjusted Dog: Strategies for Success
Raising a Calm and Well-Adjusted Dog: Strategies for Success

Hello hello, Pet Parents! Carlos here. Many of you dream of a dog who can handle any environment with confidence and calmness—whether it’s a busy park, a vet visit, or a friend’s house. The good news is that with the right approach, you can help your pup become well-adjusted and ready for any adventure. Let’s talk about how to nurture a calm, adaptable companion.


 

1. Why Dogs Struggle in Certain Environments

Dogs aren’t born knowing how to navigate the human world. New sights, sounds, and smells can be overwhelming, and if a pup hasn’t been exposed to various environments in a positive way, they might react with fear, excitement, or even stress.

According to research in the Journal of Veterinary Behavior, dogs with positive early experiences are more likely to handle novel environments calmly. This highlights the importance of early socialization and ongoing exposure. (Source: ScienceDirect)


 

2. Steps to Help Your Dog Be Calm and Well-Adjusted


1. Socialize Gradually and Positively

Start early by introducing your pup to a variety of experiences in a controlled, low-stress way. Gradually expose them to:

  • Different environments (parks, urban areas, quiet neighborhoods)

  • Various people and animals

  • Everyday noises (doorbells, traffic, vacuum cleaners)


Pair these experiences with treats and praise to build positive associations.


2. Teach a Reliable “Settle” Cue

Train your dog to relax on a mat or bed, no matter the environment. Start at home with minimal distractions, then practice in gradually busier settings. Reward calm behavior consistently.


3. Desensitize to Common Stressors

If your dog struggles with specific triggers (e.g., crowded places or loud noises), work on gradual desensitization:

  • Introduce the trigger from a distance or low intensity.

  • Pair it with treats or play to create positive associations.

  • Gradually increase exposure as your dog grows more comfortable.


4. Provide Mental and Physical Stimulation

A calm dog is a tired dog. Regular exercise, puzzle toys, and scent games help burn off energy and keep your dog’s mind engaged.


5. Stay Calm Yourself

Dogs pick up on your emotions. If you’re stressed or anxious, your dog may mirror those feelings. Practice calm, confident body language and a soothing tone to help your pup feel secure.


 

3. Preparing Your Dog for New Environments

Do a Trial Run

If you’re planning to take your dog to a new place, visit the area alone first to assess potential stressors (e.g., loud noises, heavy foot traffic).


Pack the Essentials

Bring familiar items like their favorite toy, treats, or a portable mat to help them feel at home.


Give Them Space

Allow your dog to explore at their own pace and respect their boundaries. If they seem overwhelmed, create distance from the stressor.


 

4. Signs Your Dog Is Well-Adjusted

  • They’re curious but calm in new environments.

  • They look to you for guidance when unsure.

  • They recover quickly from stress or surprises.

  • They can relax and settle in various settings.


 

5. Common Challenges (and Solutions)

“My Dog Gets Overexcited in Public.”

  • Solution: Practice focus exercises, like “watch me” or “sit,” and reward calm behavior. Gradually increase exposure to exciting environments.


“My Dog Seems Nervous in New Places.”

  • Solution: Start slow and keep sessions short. Celebrate small victories to build their confidence.


“My Dog Won’t Settle in Busy Spaces.”

  • Solution: Use a familiar mat or blanket as a “safe zone” and reinforce calm behavior with treats and praise.


 

Final Thoughts

Pet parents, raising a calm and well-adjusted dog is a journey that requires patience, consistency, and a lot of love. By gradually exposing your pup to new environments and reinforcing calm behavior, you’re not just training a dog—you’re building a confident, adaptable companion ready to share life’s adventures with you.


Have questions about socialization or managing stress? Reach out—I’m here to help you and your pup thrive!



Carlos F. Morales - CDBC | CPDT-KA


 

Carlos is head trainer at Canine High School in Long Beach CA, a force-free Puppy School and Dog School. He is responsible for creating the School's Dog Training System, Curriculum and Philosophy. In addition to educating his canine students and their human parents, he runs a teaching school that offers apprenticeship and internship programs for aspiring professional dog trainers. He is a Certified Mentor Trainer for several dog training schools and holds certifications with the IAABC and the CCPDT. He lives in Long Beach CA in a little house by the beach with his human, his three dogs GoGo, Kiba, Choji and a sassy cat, Habibti.

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